No one is simply going to save you

This last message for this group, is a harsh reminder for a harsh truth. No one is simply just going to rescue you no matter how much you need them to, and how amazing and wonderful and caring they seem. Good people will give you advice,  it's helpful advice to help you help yourself. Not a magic cure

I've never done it, but I have been tempted to send out an SOS to a complete stranger that I admire. But I asure you if you are crossing a line by burdening another with your issues and there really is nothing they can do for you. It's easy to think that a famous person has dome hidden truth that once you hear it you will be ok. They will be polite and say something along the lines "I'm sorry to hear that" and maybe "you should get professional help" but you won't get anything that is going to be along the line of them going to drop what they're doing and go to comfort a complete stranger, which is what you want to hear, I know I would, lol.

I have a brother who's behaviour was once very poisnous and would unload his troubles on me. It was very unpleasent at times and he would constantly make it worse by just demanding more, like the conversation had no end.

So, charity starts at home. Help yourself, make yourself happy, and when you are completely adequate you can get good at something. Anything. If it's not a job then a hobby... Then people will see your achievements and be drawn to you and most importantly you'll have something to talk about. But of course don't just talk about yourself. Everyone has achievements.